My wish for you....

As I sit waiting for my princess to do her Jazz and Ballet classes for the next two hours I think about how hard it is for girls to grow up these days. It has always been hard but I think society has made it even harder. So there are a few things that I wish I had of known when growing up and I thought I would share what I wish for my little chicken! 

****WARNING this blog will be full of positivity and lots of inspiring affirmations! *****

My wishes for you my chicken little:

❤ Always be yourself. Don't change who you are to fit in or make someone like you. If they don't like you for you or take you the way you are they aren't worth your time. 

❤ Appreciate your brothers. They are the ones that will always be there for you and stick up for you. You may need to look after them sometimes too! 

❤ Be kind to yourself. Don't get sucked into what the magazines say you should look like. Women are all different shapes and sizes and no one is perfect. Even models have something they don't like about themselves. Some people are tall some are short, some women have bigger breasts and some smaller. Love the body you got as its the only one you have. Also know that beauty comes from within and shines outside. 

❤ Be your own person. Like what you like and what you don't like. We are all different and if we all liked the same things it would be a very boring world. Don't give in to the pressures to do something just because someone else has the idea that doing that it can be cool or good for them. Make your decisions wisely and with much care. 

❤ Create your own path. Don't follow in the footsteps of others. Nothing good ever comes easily. If you work hard at something you can look back and be proud that you have achieved something special and know that you gave it your all and that no one else did it for you. 

❤ You are awesome. You are smart. You are beautiful. You are kind. You are unique. Have great self esteem and don't let anyone or anything strip it away. But don't be too proud to admit that you are only human. You can be strong but humble. 

❤ Don't be too proud to admit when you have made mistakes. Mistakes mean that you have tried and are living. Learn from your mistakes though and move on. Don't over analyse moments in time that can't be changed or taken back. 

❤ Girls can be nasty and cruel creatures if they want to be.  Don't be a 'mean' girl. Stay clear of these types of people in general. Surround yourself with positive people. 

❤ Choose your battles. Sometimes it's best to let the little things slide. Fight for the big things and be strong about what you believe in. 

❤ Boys, where do I begin! Some will become great friends others will float in and out of your life. The really special ones will love you for you and build you up and never tear you down. Love isn't all Fairytales and Prince Charming but, you will find your soulmate, maybe when you least expect it!  

❤ Be kind to your parents! When you become a parent yourself you will know how much we did, do and have done for you. 

❤ Be kind to everyone you meet as everyone has their own struggles and battles to deal with. 

❤ Be compassionate and treat others how you would want to be treated. 

❤ Smile, be you and love will shine from you and be returned to you! 

K